Mexico 2019

Good Day my Sexy Friends & Followers,

Well now that I am back and have done all my laundry, house cleaning and getting settle back home from what might be my most memorable trip to Mexico.

I did write about what happened on like the 16th my fourth day there. That event changed they way folks thought about and treated me. I became a sort of celebrity no longer in the background being quiet and reserve. Helping out when I could ie washing dishes , doing laundry, cleaning up. Laundry is done by hand and hung to dry.  I did this every time i was there before but wasn’t allowed by the women this time

See the source image

As old fashion of a town can be. I am sure if they knew of my submissive nature and being a bisexual crossdresser I would be shunned. But alas they think of me as a hero.

It was a world wind tour of the local town having many local meals at various officials homes. Being served first and everyone making sure I was happy and enjoying life. For me embarrassing I want to serve I want to be in the background. Wasn’t happening. I was a guest of honor at the rodeo in town which included riding in the dignitary car. I would so much rather dance down the street in the parade with these lovely Ladies twirling a beautiful skirt going to rodeo.

Hardly a spot for someone who wants not to be in the lime light. There was much drinking of tequila which kept me from being able to write about the experiences as they were happening. Many nights ok almost every night, I was glad to be back with the family but rather drunk and just got ready for bed.

As you can see from the photos that I took from the net. Its a very smell town with great people.

I am thankful that I had a good time and enjoyed Mexico.

Humbly submitted


TMI Tuesday: January 7, 2020 – Happy New Year!

Happy Sexy New Year to one and All

1. What is the most useless thing you know how to do?

i played  a lot of football and when i watch games i can usually tell the offensive play before it starts. i can catch a football behind my back

2. Do you use sex to relieve stress? How?

Masturbate and yes way to often that is why i cage myself.

3. What sex act or position did not thrill you until you tried it?

Like most guys Anal love receiving. and analalingus love giving.

4. What is the most unusual but fun sexual encounter you have had?

Strangely a my first threesome MMF. The women was older and the guy was gay didn’t do anything with the woman. i was totally oral with both

5. What is something that can happen in the middle of sex that will make you put on your clothes and walk out?

Leg cramps happened a couple of times.

Bonus: What was a random compliment that someone gave you that really stuck in your memory?

Sorry can’t think of anything i guess this is from being 65


Humbly submitted



How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblog from your website!

Happy TMI Tuesday!


Happy New Year

Good Day Sexy Followers,

sorry its been so long but being in Mexico turned into something different then being there in the past.  More about that later.

For now i am happy to be back home safe and sound and wearing a hoodie dress and heels. Oh yes i put on a collar too.  Really the longing that i had. now fulfilled.

Laundry done catching up on bills.


Happy New Year




TMI Tuesday: The Christmas Edition

TMI Tuesday, the Christmas edition.


1. Have you ever kissed someone under mistletoe?

ANSWER: Yes.  i am hoping to do so again and hopefully will give someone some oral sex under it

2. Eggnog or hot chocolate?

ANSWER:Neither.   I don’ton’t like hot drinks period and eggnog has never done anything for me.

3. Colored or white lights on a Christmas tree?

ANSWER: Colored lights. i enjoy multiple of colors of light.

4. Real or fake Christmas tree?

ANSWER: Fake. Easy to put up. Easy to take down. Easy to put in a box and lights already on them and store in one’s basement for years.  Also many years ago i went to a Christmas tree farm to cut a tree down. it was a beautiful day and when i got to the farm a light snow fell, It was just beautiful and mystical.  After walking around the farm for 2 hours i didn’t have the will to cut a tree down. so i bought my first fake tree

5. What tops your Christmas tree?

ANSWER: A femdom Christmas angel. Just my dream a star atop mine

6. Candy canes, yuck or yum?

ANSWER: Yumyum i have an oral fixation so i just love sucking up and down a cane stick.

7. What is your favorite holiday dessert?

ANSWER: Candy Pie from Baker’s square.Chocolate cream pie whip cream and peppermint

BONUS: Are you going on holiday during the December holiday season? Where?

ANSWER: Yes in Mexico. My first time away from my entire family . i’m with my daughter , 2 granddaughters, and her family. The live in a small town very old fashion.   






How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your web space (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to TMITuesdayBlog from your website!


submissive Yes i am

Good Day Sexy Friends and Followers,

i never thought much about how submissive i was or am or have been in my life. One of the blogs i follow is written by a 34 year old slave. Slave Shae {} has me thinking. I have always  been a Mamma’s Boy and doing as my Mother asked of me. I believe She is the one responsible for me being a crossdresser.  My sister is nine years older and for Halloween as i was always dressed as her daughter.  My sister has always been there for me as my Mother had been . Mother passed away 11 years ago. Miss her dearly.  So i was always submissive to my Mother and Sister but not in a BDSM way. As years progressed i was always submissive to the Women in my life whether they knew or not.  My wife after 40 years of marriage figured it out decided i wasn’t alpha enough for her and left me.  My 23 daughters don’t really understand why She left and all are very synpathic with me thinking their Mom is crude.  My daughters have dropped their Mother in support of me , which i try to explain and tell them She is their Mother ot be loved always too.

So today while in small town Mexico, it hit me how submissive i am to my youngest daughter’s family ie In Laws. I don’t speak Spanish and have been to this town 6 times in the last 3 years.

I go no place with out a family member. So today, while in the big town about 6 miles from where we stay. My daughter’s FIL( Jose) asked me to come with Him to the big town. i always walk a few steps behind Him or anyone when i do to town.  He went to a bank and picked up some pesos(cash) , while i waited outside.  As He left 2 men walked behind Him.  One quickly stepped in front of Him and comforted Him asking for His money, while the one right behind Him put a knife to his side.  I quickly grabbed and disarmed the offender. while the other ran off.  i am not a hero bu any means. i worked with the Police for 20 years and trained with them.

Jose was surprised and told me i was his and everyone in the family’s body guard. i shrugged it off.  Telling Him i am only here because Your family loves me and am willing to help out any way possible.

So here in small town Mexico, where the men eat first and the children and Women eat after, i eat with the men and then help the Women clean up afterwards. Washing dishes when i am not pushed away.

i do love being here.

Humbly submitted




Join in on the fun of Lingerie Is For Everyone, Week 48

Good Day Sexy friends and Followers,

i was surprised yesterday with 2 packages so i found time tried them on and wore them all day. So i took a few pics of my new panties and bra.

i am so lucky and happy to be part of this Community\of sexy bloggers.

Lingerie is for everyone and every body.

No matter your gender or sexuality, no matter the size or shape of your body, no matter your ethnicity, if you love lingerie, you are welcome to contribute to this link-up. Your lingerie doesn’t need to be fancy or expensive, if it’s an undergarment t

hat you feel good in, that’s all you need. Likewise, if you’re less about pictures and more about words, written pieces that center on lingerie are accepted too – opinion pieces, fiction, and poetry are all welcome. Sexy, silly, provocative, revealing, there are no limits – just fun, encouragement, and community.

so i am off to Mexico with 2 grandchildren.

looking forward to getting away

Happy Holidays

Merry Christmas

Happy New Year

Humbly submitted



TMI Tuesday: December 10, 2019

so here it is maybe my last one until i come back from Mexico after 1-2-2020. i leave in 2 days.

Happy Sexy Times

1. Christmas music is everywhere. It has been on the radio in my area since mid-November! If you had to listen to Christmas music, from one artist, non-stop during December who would be crooning those holiday tunes? (must pick one). Why did you make that choice?
a. Harry Connick Jr.
b. Mariah Carey

Definitely Harry Jr he is sexy and has a sound that warms my insides

2. In 2019, in the bedroom, were you mostly naughty or nice?

naughty masturbated way to many times

3. In your next sexcapade, who will be joining you (must pick one)? Why is that your choice?
a. Mr and Mrs Santa Claus
b. Grinch
c. Frosty the snowman
d. 4 of Santa’s elves

Without a doubt a wonderful thressome with Mr & Mrs love to be in between them dressed as an elf. winder if i could get Mrs to peg me while i was giving Mr a bj.


4. Do you celebrate any holidays in December? If yes, what?

Just Christmas this year gonna be in small town Mexico with my grandchilren

5. How will you be spreading holiday cheer in 2019?

enjoying time with family 


Bonus: What Netflix holiday movie do you recommend we watch?

i don’t watch Netflix but here’s a little diddy i do enjoy and if You follow some of my favorite bloggers, there were some wonderful blogs about Anal and fisting.

 The Wet  Spots Fist Me





 see who else is TMI


4 out of 5 dentists recommend this site

Considering Cuntella

musings of a cunty submissive

The AlexaJade Blog

Caged Shelli_k18

femdom sissy training cwnm nsfw feminization emasculation

Worship The Patriarchy

Men lead... females serve and obey!

fito's den

belongs to HER

The Chrysanthemum and The Sword

“Each time we face our fear, we gain strength, courage, and confidence in the doing.” “Even a sheet of paper has two sides.”

Dispatches From Dystopia

"What man by worrying can add one cubit to his span of years?"

Pain As Pleasure

A kinky male takes a peek out of the closet

Penny Berry

BDSM & DDLG Lifestyle Articles From an Adult Little

helen scott

Sexy, Funny, Not at all Graceful

The Dionysian Experience

Sensual, Thoughtful, and Very Naughty


Personal, sexual and submissive life as ‘Susie’

Mx Nillin

A very NSFW, pleasure focused, Kink friendly, sex blog for queer and trans folk.


We test, you read, and hopefully WeConnect.

Kilted Wookie's Naughty Hashtags

Just a man, contemplating the meaning of life, the universe and everything while sharing his thoughts, words and pictures. Tying to make the world a happier place, one naughty hashtag at a time.

Warning: The sexual content on this site is not suitable for those under 18 years of age.

silkteddy's Blog

A great site

Transgender Romance

Free Crossdresser Transgender Sissy Erotica Romance Stories

The liberation of sissybitch alliej

Feminization, submission, chastity, owned sissyslut of my Lady, black cock slut and more