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Happy New Year

Good Day Sexy Friends & Followers

I want to wish everyone a Happy & Healthy New Year filled with Peace n Love. Mat dreams become reality.

i have rarely done anything on New Years Eve or New Years Day. Mostly being at home with family. Because it was 49 years ago on New Years Eve at 5:30 a.m. that my father passed. He had been ill for many years and we (Sister, Brother and Mother) watched his health fail. I remember that morning like it was today. i sometimes think i failed him greatly. Not being exactly who he wanted me to be. I was only 16 years old , still a punk in High School. Not really concerned about growing up and being the man of the family. My sister was married. My younger brother was still in grade school. I just wanted to have fun play football, hang with girls , and drink or do drugs. Fortunately, i stayed on the right side of the law and my Mother was always there when i needed her.

Mother has been gone just a little over 12 years. i miss them both terribly. i do believe that both my parents would be proud of me today. Maybe not happy that i identify as a bisexual, crossdresser , service slave. But as i look back i am only one in family with a Masters degree including my cousins. i retired at 57 , i have 3 beauitful Daughters, 2 son in laws that would do anything for me or their wives. 5 Granddaughters 4 Grandsons and 1 great Grand son. The family is all healthy and doing well despite this goofy virus that has us quarantining.

The biggest surprise came on Christmas Day when Mistress Kate called me. Not only was it She and Sir have now tested negative foe covid but they are both feeling better. She then really surprised me by saying ” we both love you heaps, and i have loved you since we first me. think about moving in. I know that would mean moving 7 hours from your family. Sir is going back to Chicago and i will be alone for the next 2 to 3 months. Don’t answer now. Think about it and i will call you on Jan 1. Hugs n Love” with that she blew me a kiss and hung up. i am still in shock and haven’t told my daughter and her hubby about that yet. I live with them and their 4 daughters.

Life can be good and will be good. Happy New Year One and All

Peace N Love



Hose – food for thought

Good Day My Sexy Friends & Followers,

Thank – You, Posy. I think you have great legs too ! Also thanks Alice.

This is about Hose and panty hose. Like most crossdressers . i started out with Mothers and Sisters. Oh what a feeling . Still enjoy the feeling on my legs . Silk thigh Highs a great feeling. I used to wear Leggs winterhose when i played football. The guys in the locker room would give me shit about it. but that never mattered as i played well enough. Been shaving my legs sine my early 20’s mainly for cycling but soon found out that the feeling was enhanced on my legs. Before i reitred many days more than not i had either thigh highs on or pantyhose. i just love the feeling.

Here’s a few Christmas bows under my pants for the day.

Merry Christmas

Peace N Love

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Service slave

Good Day Sexy Friends and Followers,

i hope and trust everyone is well and doing the best they can in this pandemic world. Being bored and looking for something new , i added myself to Tik Tok. Mainly because i wanted to see Shakira’s dance challenge from the new video Girl Like Me. (Black Eyed Peas, Shakira – GIRL LIKE ME (Official Music Video) – YouTube ) Video link to song. BTW wish i had a body like Hers.

Well on Tik Tok someone wrote about service slaves and what they are and aren’t. I found it interesting but off. i also added myself to a dating app. My secret on the app was that i am a crossdresser and added a pic of me in a dress. i also stated that i was service oriented and believed in FLR. i guess not so surprisingly, but i received several responses. The question that was most asked was when did you have sex last? A tough answer for me because i haven’t had “sex” for over 10 years. if your definition of sex is fucking. i have been oral with several over the last few years. But my privates have not been touched my anyone in over 10 years. Do i miss that ? short answer no. i enjoy giving. Even when i was with Mistress Kate and Sir , i didn’t get touched in the private area. But they strokes my head , arms , or arms while i was with them. And to me that was wonderful They were worried about me and got pleasure from me masturbating in front of them and consuming my own ejaculate.

So to me a service slave provides service. Whether it be physical with someone or doing some chore, errand , or what have you. Washing clothes, car or dishes.

Doing for others That is what please me and makes me a service slave!! and a plus if i can dress up to the part !!!

Have a great Holiday Season

Peace N Love



Thinking after Thanking

Good Day Sexy Friends and Followers,

Hope all are doing well among this pandemic that is driving some of us up the wall. It’s been a rough time for all of us. I certainly miss traveling to Mexico and up to see Mistress Kate. Seems Mistress Kate is caring for a close friend who has covid and not doing well. I haven’t been able to go see Her because of that. My Daughter is due to deliver another granddaughter in February. so i must stay healthy. so i have been thinking its been hard to dress as sindee and get out. Ok impossible to get out under all these closures. And i am getting older close to 66 so i have been thinking about purging for the last time. Giving what i can to those who need things. Not sure exactly but that’s the way i am leaning. since this way should anything happen to me. Noone will have to go thru 4 bins of my girlie clothes and toys.

Here’s from the last time i was left home alone. Maybe my last pics .

Peace N Love

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Happy Thanksgiving

Good Day Sexy Friends & Followers,

I wish everyone a Happy & Healthy Thanksgiving. I know this is a American custom and some do not celebrate. But my wishes are for all.

I am very thankful for everyone i follow.

I am thankful for family & friends(new & old).

I am thankful for parents and grandparents tat taught me right from wrong.

I am thankful for my Mother who was always accepting and there for me.

I am thankful that i can blog and express myself on this forum without judgement.

most thankful for God’s Faithfulness in my life as the song goes

“Great is Thy faithfulness
Morning by morning new mercies I see
All I have needed Thy hand hath always provided”

Thank You

Be healthy. Be kind. Be respecrful

Peace n Love




Lingerie is For Everyone – Cosy, comfy edition

Good Day Sexy Friends and Followers,

it might not be very cosy or sexy but it is very comfy. Just out of the shower and doing a little air drying. Sitting back and resting

Lingerie Is For Everyone is an inclusive, supportive and body positive bi-weekly link-up where you can share your love of lingerie through words and photos.

Lingerie has long been seen as something just for women and it’s often represented by only a very narrow example of women, (usually slim, white, and cisgender). For something with an almost universal appeal, this makes no sense!

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Peace N Love


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New Friend Inspired

Good Day Sexy Friends and Followers,

Hope everyone is feeing good despite these quarantined times . Recently, i have been feeling not so sexy and lonely in the companionship department as many single folks might be feeling. Personally my love language is touch. Oh how i long to touch and be touched. So along comes a new reader and now friend and i long to meet him. i hope to someday travel across the pond to meet him. Or perhaps he will be in my area. He has made me feel special. Like many comments that i get i really enjoy and yes they cheer me up and inspire me. So please keep on cheering me on and encouraging me . Thank You Thank You i am on my knees thank You All. I wish i could meet You all and serve each and everyone of You. So Here are some new pics inspired by my new Englishmen.


Peace N Love



Bear Down
Sweet Chicago Bear
He’s Bearly seen

Fun Inspried

@Collaredmichael and Bound to serve Her recently posted a list. I’ve decided to take part. Love following them. I’ve put a Done it behind everything I have experienced.

•Been Married Done It Twice

•Been divorced Done it twice

•Fell in love Done it Many times

•Watched someone give birth Done it 5 times

And Caught a baby being born Not but cut the cord

•Watched someone die  Done it Both Mom and Dad

•Been to Canada

 •Ridden in an ambulance Done it

•Been to Hawaii 

•Been to Europe 

•Been to Las Vegas Done it

•Been to Washington D C Done it

•Served on a jury

•Danced in the rain Done it Nude

•Been to California Done it

•Been to New York 

•Played in the band/orchestra in school Done it

•Sang in the church choir Done it

•Sang karaoke Done it

•Laughed so much you cried 

•Laughed so hard you pee’d

•Caught a snowflake on your tongue Done it

•Had children/adopted Done it
•Had a pet(s) Done it

•Been sledding on a big hill Done it

•Been downhill skiing Done it

•Been water skiing 

•Rode on a motorcycle Done it

•Traveled to all 50 states
•Jumped out of a plane
•Been to a drive-in movie Done it

•Rode an elephant

•Rode a Horse Done it

•Been on TV

•Been in the newspaper Done it

•Been on the radio Done it
•Stayed in the hospital alone Done it

•Donated blood Done it

•Gotten a piercing  Done it 5

•Gotten a tattoo

•Driven a stick shift vehicle  does test drive count? Done it

•Been scuba diving
•Lived on your own Done it

•Broken a bone Done it
•Gotten stitches Done it
•Traveled Alone Done it

Sorry couldn’t figure out the hearts but had fun running down memory lane .

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Peace and Love



for those who need a shot or 2

Good Day My Sexy Friends and Followers,

Normally, my post include at least one photo of me. Not Today its about 3 things are world needs a whole lot more of Peace – Love – Happiness. I am a product of the 60’s . hippies , love, going to a non denominational church. What does that mean ? i am a peaceful loving and happy person.

i believe i am here to serve, respect, and love others. Maybe that’s why i am bisexual. Love one another.

I am thinking of getting a tattoo. here are 3 choices i am thinking of i shall add a poll on Twitter for a vote (

so its Peace – Love – Happiness to all

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a little note

Good Day Sexy Friends and Followers,

i had a chance to dress up a little and hang out in bra and panties with my collar on and interesting enough Mistress Kate called. We had a delightful chat and She asked me to tell Her what i issed about not being up with Her and Sir. She decided i should write about it .

i miss being at their side as they watch a show someitmes one of them is petting y head. Other times i might be rubbing their feet. Or being asked to get snacks or drinks. i adore how they can interact and ignore me but yet snap a finger to get my attention. I miss Her lovely body and being able to wash and massage Her and of course Sir too. I enjoy opening car doors for them when we go out. i miss them ordering food for me at a resturant . i miss carrying in the groceries and putting them away. But most of all i miss their company. We have yet to establish dates fr my week in November. i so look forward to that week.

Have a Great day

Peace N Love

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quick photo of bra and collar

bra and collar