TMI Tuesday – It’s just a fantasy

It’s just a fantasy

1. If your lover was turned on by forced feminization would you participate (giving or receiving)?
*forced feminization is the practice of enforcing activities on a male, which are typically associated with women, to make him submissive. For example: wearing lingerie, heels, make-up.

I am into it but it really isn’t being forced on me i love heels and dreeses!



2. When you have sexual dreams or fantasies that are aggressive or cruel, does it worry you?

I never really have fantasies that are aggressive or cruel, i am always submissive

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3. Tell us your hottest, sexiest fantasy, right now, in 100 words or less.
This is the fantasy about your desires that you probably never share, maybe they even go against your morals or are societal taboos.

my hottest, sexiest fantasy right now is to be dominated and to serve a Mistress and Master.
4. Which super hero would you like to have sex with? Why?
a. Aquaman
b. Superman
c. Wonder Woman
d. She-Ra

b. Wonder Woman – i would beg to serve Her any way she desired.



5. Do you think the lure to live out sexual fantasies or have sex frequently is amplified by technology? Briefly explain.

i think so, it is more available to people just at the click of a button
Bonus: Describe your fantasy life in three (3) words.

right hand


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1. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, your future, what would you want to know?

orderLthat i remarried to a Woman who believed in and wanted t o live in FL


What do you value most in your sex life?

my right hand i use hand cream after washing dishes a close second is my self imposed chastity



4. If you had to move to a state or country besides the one in which you currently live, where would you move and why?

Mexico because the people are kind and gentile

5. Are you too nice?

people always tell me a that i am kind and a nice guy and i remind them that last is first and its ok

Bonus: Falling in love is _____ . (one word only)

devastating when the other breaks your heart especially after  40 years of marriage




Bend Me Shape Me

So i was listening to some oldies and heard this one by The American Band

Band me Shape me

Got me thinking maybe the song should have been titled

Ode to Mistress

Just a sample of some of the words

Bend me shape me any way You want me

You got the power to turn on the light

Everybody tells me i’m wrong to want You so badly

but there’s force driving me on

i’ll follow you gladly

so let them laugh

I dont care

cause I got nothing to hide

link to song




TMI 3-6-18

TMI Tuesday:  March 6, 2018

TMI Tuesday–

1. What food(s) is your city/country known for?

Chicago Style Hot dogs 


2. What should people do when visiting your city?

Buckingham Fountain at night and The Bean 

3. What do people do when they come to your home?

Eat and enjoy dinner

4. What should people expect when they visit you?

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Bonus: If you were chair who would you like to have sit on you?


If She would allow me the Pleasure click to follow her on Twitter Vanessa Chaland

She sells furniture on…

She writes and sells books on Amazon at


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Happy TMI Tuesday!


Belly Ache Fix

Woke up this morning with a big belly ache

What to do ? Then i remember Mother,  who was English, gave us kids enemas for just about everything.

I had just bought this holds a quart.


So i fill it up and insert it appropriately. Nice warm water. i was able to hold 2 quarts for about 20 minutes. What  great release and took care of my belly ache.

So i took off The Vice and showered & shaved feeling very refreshed. so back on with a plug and The Vice.


Feeling better maybe i will go out for a walk




TMI 2-20-18

I Need My Space

1. Do you think that fate or destiny play a role in love?

a. Absolutely

b. For the most part
c. Somewhat
d. Not really
e. Not at all
2. True or False – If my sexual likes and dislikes are not in line with my partners, I change them.

False i’m too submissive to change someone else 

3. You and your partner are at a party. Both of you are equally acquainted with the hosts and the other people attending, although you aren’t the best of pals with any of the guests, you have conversed with them on a few occasions. During the socializing, what would you most likely do?
a. I’d stay glued to my partner’s side, conversing with the same people he/she is.
b. I’d be away from my partner, mingling with the other guests.
c. I’d stay near my partner, but involved in different conversations.

d. I spend some time by my partner’s side, and some time mingling.

e. I let my partner drift or stick by me – as she/he wishes.
4. Have you ever gone through your partner’s journal, diary or personal letters?
a. Yes – I‘ve read it/them from A to Z.
b. Yes – I’ve read some of it/them.
c. I know where she/he keeps them but I haven’t read any.
d. I know where she/he keeps them – I couldn’t help but look – but I haven’t read any.

e. No – I don’t knoNOw where she/he keeps them, and I have no intention of looking.

f. No – I don’t know she/he keeps them, even though I’ve looked.
5. Have you ever had a romantic partner go through your journal, diary, personal letters or text messages without your permission? How did you feel? What did you do?

No she didn’t care about my kinky side and wanted me to live vanilla

Bonus:  What makes you feel loved?

being able to serve and care for someone who appreciates having a submissive man 

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heard this song one of my favorites from Neil Diamond and it got me thinking


these lyrics

Where I am, what I am
What I believe in
Holly holy
Holly holy dream

make me think who am i sindee or the male me

as sindee i am kind gentle caring and living to serve others

in male mode i can be demanding self centered and everyone is ok with that

when in male mode i am try to be kind caring , and serving and then i am considered weak

But i love to serve i love to wear dresses , heels and women’s clothes yet i hide in the closet 75 % of the time. My wife after realizing i wasn’t finished cross dressing left after 43 years of marriage. She doesn’t

love me as a maid ,Her servant thinks of me as a weak male not Her hubby who loves Her. She said if i loved her i wouldn’t wear women’s clothes and i would tell Her what to do and when to do it. but that’s not me.

so life will go on She has filled for divorce wanting it all and leaving me with nothing so the lawyers will fight it our and hopefully, sindee will be happy when this is over.

so for now i love these photos of sindee helps me remember good times




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