TMI November 1 2016

TMI Tuesday: November 1, 2016

New month, new questions…get to writing that new blog post by playing TMI Tuesday.


1. What makes you cry?

many things thinking of my Mother & Father. Things that remind me of them. The Cubs winning back to back games

2. The world is ending (or you are on death row), what would be your last meal?

chili cheese fries and

Elis Cheese cake and chocolate cake , washed down with chocolate shake 

3. You must join a gang/crew, of the choices below, which gang would you join and why?
a. Rue Bella and the Annie Depressants – a crew of drag queens Easy choice love to be in drag 
b. Aryan Brotherhood of white supremacist
c. Secret Society of The Order of Chaeronea – fostering an understanding and acceptance of gay community and lifestyle
d. Free Hugs club – monthly membership requirement of hugging 10 strangers a month
e. Quidditch Club – Mandatory game every Sunday. (Not a Harry Potter fan, read this for more info ).

4. Who makes the best leader of a country–your mom or dad? Why?

Hmm hard one but i think my Dad. He was compassionate and caring yet very demanding in doing the right things for the right reasons.

5. If you could abolish one piece of modern technology, what would it be and why?

This was difficult until i read AtiyaLuv’s  response definitely the cell phone and bring back face to face communications. Less auto accidents due to less distracted drivers. it annoys when when i see someone walking their dog and chatting , texting or social media folks do this when walking down the street with their children. Cell phones not allowed at our table when we are

Bonus: Will you (or have you) celebrate Halloween this year? What did you do?

i do not celebrate Halloween watched the Bears win for a change.


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TMI Oct 17 2016

Tuesday, October 18, 2016

TMI Oct 17 2016

Hello world! Guess what we are talking about this week at TMI Tuesday?
1. Good sex can be Invigorating makes one feel alive
2. Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about You and me and enjoying our skin touching.
3. Being oral all over is all about putting pleasure back into sex.
4. Excessive use of pornography can distort expectations of what sex in real life should or could be like.
a. True
b. False it can give tips and clues and help break boundaries
Care to expound?
5.  A happy healthy partner boosts my sexual performance.  Positive reinforcement from my partner boosts my sexual enjoyment.
Bonus:  What is the last way that you experienced sexual pleasure?
i am grateful for the internet and pornography less i admit it i masturbated and did it more than once.
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TMI The Sexes 10-11-16

Welcome to another TMI Tuesday.

The sexes?


1. What is femininity to you? Tell us in 50 words or less. 

not masculine having Female qualities and mannerisms

2. How does femininity come into play in your sexual relationship?

Not having any sexual relationship

3. What does masculinity mean to you? Tell us in 50 words or less

Being in charge taking over being the boss

4. Men, we often hear about women’s body image struggles–what are your body image issues?

i wish i had big breasts and a smaller waistline

5. Men’s gender role conflict is a psychological state in which restrictive definitions of masculinity limit men’s well-being and human potential. Do you now or have you ever suffered from Men’s gender role conflict? What are you doing to resolve this?

Yes i wish i could wear dresses and skirts and heels all the time. Nothing is really being done but just accepting myself foe being me.

Bonus: Does gender have any real meaning anymore?

not to everybody only some————

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Hello. Let’s play TMI Tuesday.

1. When sizing up (assessing) your romantic relationship, is there a couple that you envy? Why? (Can be a couple you know or famous/celebrity couple)
They are not famous but i envy the relationship from one of my favorite bloggers “A Married Sissy”. (    )They are truy in love with each other and in tune with each others needs on al levels.
2. Thinking of your current relationship, which stage are you in?
b. understanding stage. i knw what she wants and its not me. i live to serve Her. She has lung cancer and is undergoing chemo treatments. i have been and will always be at Her side.
a. Infatuation stage – Intense attraction and an uncontrollable urge to be with each other, strong sexual attraction.
b. Understanding stage – You both start getting to know each other better, and everything about your partner interests and fascinates you.
c. Moulding stage – You each know what you want in a partner and you start moulding each other to change in effort to create a stronger, lasting relationship.
d. If you have made it this far you are in the advanced stages of a relationship, which one best represents the current status of your relationship:
1) Stage of doubt – This is not what you want in a partner, and you have thoughts of ending the relationship.
2) Happy stage – You’ve worked out most of the kinks in your relationship, you know each others flaws and can deal with them. You are comfortable and enjoying the relationship in what you believe will be a long-lasting one.
3. If you are not currently in a romantic relationship, at which stage did your last relationship end? (see stages above).
in a relatonship
4. Do you think you are too good for your current partner? Why do you feel this way?
no She is too good for me. i have cheated on Her not physically but mentality. She just tolerates me now
5. Write a 25-word love note to your current significant other or to a person with whom you are infatuated .
Dear Karen, You are the love of my life and there isn’t anything i wouldn’t do for You.  i am here for You, always 
Bonus: Have you ever been obsessively “in love” with someone and perhaps borderline clingy? How did you get over your obsession?
i am and still in love with Her and always will be.
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Let’s Do This

TMI Tuesday: February 23, 2016

Let’s do this! TMI Tuesday


1. How many people do you really trust?

 no one the net thru my blogs and God knows who i reall am


2. What are you excited for? 

wearing  a dress and some sexy heels

3. Have you had sex today?

If stroking myself counts yes haven’t had sex with spouse for 10 years 11 years on Saturdayblue-balls

4. When was the last time you talked to someone until you fell asleep? What relation are they to you? 

my wife years ago
5. What is your opinion on sex before marriage?

As much as possible

Bonus: Does your present lover know any of your past lovers? How well?

Not at all

Public Bathrroms for all

Local activists launch push for gender-neutral bathrooms in Chicago

Tara Crockett feels uncomfortable entering a women’s restroom. It reminds the Oregon State University student activist, who does not identify as male or female, that the world often doesn’t recognize everyone.
Standing in front of two gender-neutral bathrooms Thursday at a National LGBTQ Task Force conference in Chicago, Crockett, who uses the pronouns they/them, said gendered restrooms are unwelcoming.
“It doesn’t feel good,” they said. “I’m reminded of the gender-binary that enforces the erasure of me.”
For many transgender and gender-nonconforming people, finding and using public restrooms is less a relief than an anxious task. They fear harassment or attack for their appearance. Many use apps like Refuge Restrooms, an online database of gender-neutral bathrooms, to find a safe place to go.
Mickey Mahoney, founder of the Chicago Restroom Access Project, has a simple solution to provide safe facilities to people who need them: Convert any single-occupancy restroom in Chicago to gender-neutral by changing the sign on the door.
That’s why at this year’s Creating Change Conference at the Hilton Chicago on South Michigan Avenue, each tote bag that the thousands of attendees from across the country receive at registration will include a survey with four proposed designs for a new sign. The designs are a toilet, a man and woman, and head and shoulder silhouettes with the phrases “for all restroom” and “for all toilet.” All of the signs include changing table and disability access logos.
A workshop on bathroom access will also be held at the conference at 6:30 p.m. Saturday.
Anyone not attending the conference can visit the Pride Action Tank Facebook page, with which the restroom project is affiliated, to pick their favorite sign. Once selected, the activist group will offer the signs to local businesses, schools, nonprofits and government offices in Chicago. The survey will be open until March 1.
“In general, this is to have a safer space for everyone,” Mahoney said.
A growing movement of LGBTQ advocates for gender-neutral restrooms, or all-gender restrooms, is challenging perceptions about how public bathrooms are used.
Earlier this year, New York joined Washington, Philadelphia, San Francisco, Austin, Texas, and a number of other U.S. cities that have passed bills that make all single-occupancy city bathrooms gender neutral. Some require new buildings and renovations to include gender-neutral bathrooms. Last fall, Evanston’s City Council passed an ordinance requiring gender-neutral bathrooms in public spaces in some instances, such as when a facility has only a single-occupancy restroom. The Occupational Safety and Health Administration has added gender-neutral restrooms to its list of best practices. In April, the White House added a gender-neutral bathroom.
Mahoney said that eventually he would like to see a similar policy in Chicago.
Sasha Buchert, an attorney at the Transgender Law Center whose firm helped develop the San Francisco bill, said that gender-neutral restrooms are for more than just transgender or gender-nonconforming people. They also are for parents of small children of a different gender and caretakers of the elderly and disabled who may have to assist someone using the restroom.
“It’s a common sense, no-cost solution to a common problem,” she said.
Stacey Long Simmons, director of public policy and government affairs at the LGBTQ task force, said the absence of dignity and safety for transgender and gender-nonconforming people is an issue. She said that transgender men and women often cannot use the bathroom of the gender they identify with and also are turned away from the restrooms they are allowed to use.
“Trans women wanting to access a female restroom are told, ‘No, you don’t look like the kind of female we want in our restrooms,’ ” she said.
A Washington-based study from the Williams Institute found that transgender people’s negative experiences in public restrooms have a negative impact on their education, employment, health and participation in public life. In that study, 58 percent of respondents said they had avoided going out in public because of the lack of safe restroom facilities and 54 percent reported health problems related to avoiding public restrooms such as dehydration and infections.
Some bills have targeted transgender people. In December, Jim Tomes, a Republican state senator from Indiana, proposed a bill that would prohibit transgender people from using bathrooms and locker rooms that do not conform to their gender at birth. The bill would send offenders to jail for a year and fine them as much as $5,000.
The Houston Equal Rights Ordinance, which protected transgender people from discrimination, was rejected by voters last year. Houston Mayor Annise Parker, who is gay, blamed the rejection on a campaign with the slogan “No Men in Women’s Bathrooms.”
Gina Olson, a member of the restroom project and associate director at the Center for the Study of Gender and Sexuality at University of Chicago, said there are other practical reasons for gender-neutral restrooms: Sometimes the line for one bathroom is long, while there’s no line for the other, creating a circumstance where people are waiting for no reason.
“The biological sex of someone is no longer a measure of whether they should use a bathroom,” she said. “It’s a basic issue of belonging, safety and equality.”
Copyright © 2016, Chicago Tribune
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